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[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 228 points 2 days ago (12 children)

You lot really hate walking don't you

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 104 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I used to walk to my elementary school (roughly ages 5-10) which was a mile away. Lots of kids in my town walked to school.

[–] NJSpradlin@lemmy.world 61 points 2 days ago (9 children)

I drive by a school to go to the gym in the morning. There are tons of kids that STILL walk to school. I think these Karen cases are few and far between.

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[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 128 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Everything about this is insane. Making it illegal to walk, calling cops on kids, arresting people for any fucking reason. People created a hell hole they have to live in now.

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 64 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Why is this kid walking, he should have a car. This is the USA, we don't walk here.

[–] br3d@lemmy.world 59 points 1 day ago (2 children)

By walking, that kid was stealing money from oil and car corporations

[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 1 day ago

I want to laugh at this but it sounds like something US leadership would say with a completely straight face.

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[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

It's all nuts, but I'm okay with the idea of, hey, there's a young kid, can we check on him. Cop rolls up, you okay kid? Yes. Cool, have a day. The idea that this would escalate beyond there is insanity.

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[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 103 points 1 day ago (14 children)

I am currently babysitting a 13 year old boy almost every day. Why? Because CPS says he can’t be alone.

He’s mature. He’s smart. He’s quiet. He is COMPLETELY capable of taking care of himself. His dad works 6 hour shifts at most.

The issue is, his dad went to jail for drugs. He’s been sober, he’s been working, he’s been fighting like hell to provide a decent life for his kids.

He’s not allowed to have his girlfriend around them, so he’s paying for two apartments and they can only spend time together coming up when the boy is in school.

I mean, sure, the dad hasn’t been a saint. But man oh man, they’re doing everything the can to make sure he fails.

He was taking suboxone, got the shot instead, realized he wasn’t experiencing withdrawal and dropped that. Well, now he has to prove that he will have detectable amounts in his system for up to a year, and then they’re going to MAKE him go back on suboxone to keep his son.

It’s madness the hoops some people have to jump through, meanwhile a childhood friend was starved and beaten regularly and they wouldn’t remove him from the home until his parents burned down a neighbor’s house and went to prison for arson.

When we were kids and we’d discuss what we wanted to be when we grew up, his answer was, “my mom’s murderer.”

When she did pass, he cried his eyes out for never reaching out to her and was one of the pallbearers.

I don’t get why things have to be such a mess.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

He’s not allowed to have his girlfriend around them

Wait what? That's a thing?

When we were kids and we’d discuss what we wanted to be when we grew up, his answer was, “my mom’s murderer.”

😨

[–] phutatorius@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 day ago

The War on Drugs isn't about helping people stop using. It's about feeding the prison industry and all the parasites that bleed parolees dry.

[–] Fredselfish@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (5 children)

What bullshit. I was told by CPS in Oklahoma after my boys had to move in with me after their mom had a mental health crisis and couldn't stay with her anymore. The guy had to check out our house make sure it was suitable. He told me that if kid can make food in the microwave that at 10 they can be home alone.

Also, say what you want about Oklahoma, but my kids been walking to the store by themselves since they were 8 and 6. I am sick of the fucking nanny state motherfuckers. Like that mother years ago in Florida her kids playing in THEIR front yard. She goes to jail because she wasn't watching them. By the way that woman was white so its not all a race thing. This has been a slow build for the fascist police state.

We need to fucking change the fucking laws and make cities and small towns safe for our kids to walk in. Not to mention that kids are safer now then when I was a child. At least my kids have phones. I have Life 360 on all their devices. Hell when I was a kid they had to run ads at 10pm asking "Do you know where your kids are?" Because parents didn't pay attention to what we were doing. Shit I roam the whole town of Sulphur Springs Texas and not once did anyone stop and ask what we were doing. And trust me their were times that I was up to no good. Plus you were more likely to be snatched up then compared to now.

My kids walk the streets and sometimes might be outside past dark. And we have shit for sidewalks. They don't even have sidewalks leading to the schools. But every school year tons of little kids are walking to school. It's up to the drivers to pay attention. Example there is a Daylight Donuts right across the street from the school. Also a red light. You have to be careful because these kids are dumb and will just start crossing the road not looking at all. I at least told my kids. The cemetery is full of people who had the right away.

I am sick of nosey people that won't let kids be kids. I like to blame boomers but they're Genxers that have that mentality to.

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[–] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 60 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

This is what suburban carbrain disease does to a mfker.

Having grown up in Eastern Europe, walking to the kindergarten since 4, walking to the primary school since 7, walking / pubtransiting to mid/high school since 11, the North American suburban carbrain disease is just shocking, even after living alongside it for two decades.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 19 points 1 day ago (4 children)

America wasn't like this until 2000s that's when it started

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[–] 5in1k@lemmy.zip 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I used to be allowed to take a rowboat out by myself at 10. What a bunch of pussies we are becoming.

[–] TeddE@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Independence of any level is discouraged in the surveillance society we've built.

[–] Zink@programming.dev 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah. The problem isn't that everybody is turning into wimps.

The problem is that a critical mass of people are turning into paranoid busybody boot licking narcs.

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[–] 5in1k@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah. I fucking hate it. I have serious issues with authority and it seems like there’s more and more restrictions every fucking day.

[–] PolarKraken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago

Yep I'm this way and have recently come to realize that at my core I just don't actually believe any other human has the right to tell me what to do. Full stop. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I should be allowed to do whatever I want, I understand my responsibilities, to my loved ones and society, better than most honestly. I just really can't tolerate being told what to do.

And oddly it makes me a productive employee, a thoughtful partner, a good friend...largely to avoid scenarios where someone feels like they need to tell me what's up.

But yeah, all the time society feels more and more like a constricting, stifling set of agreements...which I never actually agreed to.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 day ago

O' the land of the free

Cannot even smoke weed

[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 133 points 2 days ago

Once again the rest of the world wonders how a whole country can be so... unreal

[–] knatschus@discuss.tchncs.de 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago (3 children)

My kid took the bus to the other side of town by herself when she was 9.

[–] P13@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How is prison treating you?

Lol her classmates were going to the shopping centre alone before that. Norway is different.

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[–] rizzothesmall@sh.itjust.works 71 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Maybe it would be safer for kids to walk places if you didn't have pedos embedded in your whole infrastructure

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 29 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Wow people are just seeing pedophiles everywhere and missing the places they actually are.

I got raped by my mom and people in my group when i did therapy were mostly raped at home or with family.
The walk outside is the safest part of growing up for people at actual risk.

Find another thing to latch onto.

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[–] diptchip@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's almost like kids belong to the state, now. "Parental rights" lol

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[–] cryptTurtle@piefed.social 32 points 1 day ago

Bro by that age I was driving 4 wheelers through uncharted woods. People need to chill

[–] firewyre@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Things have gone too far. Fuck Cops and fuck Karen too.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 58 points 2 days ago

By this logic, the movie "Stand By Me" should be rated X.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 50 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Swede here, the day before I started school my mom and I walked the route she wanted me to go to get to school.

This route lead across a railroad crossing and several road crossings.

I was 6.

At 10 we were allowed to bike to and from the school.

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[–] Vile_port_aloo@lemmy.world 0 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

Wait I thought CNN was trash, this was a good article.

Edit:https://x.com/thomaslake

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