It’s probably not selfishness, experts say. Even young adults who want children see an increasing number of obstacles.

Well, of course it's not selfishness. Having children is a purely selfish act, because who else are you reproducing for? You can't do something for someone that doesn't exist, and bringing existence to someone who hasn't asked for it, knowing what the world looks like, doesn't strike me as a kindness. So who else is benefiting? The capitalist machine?

What about "I just don't want one." is that not a legitimate line of thought? That was what I based my decision on. I have never understood why the default state was marriage and then have a family. I can tell you that me and my childless wife are family.

I bet if the billionaires shared just a bit more we could afford to have more kids and they wouldn’t be looking at their labor force drying up…

weird how all those tax cuts for rich people lead to them going on real estate purchasing sprees, making housing unaffordable

I just downloaded the raw data from https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.DYN.CBRT.IN and ploted it in this graph for the countries I was interested in:

The USA is - according to the data - nothing special in this regard. It's even positioned best of all the countries with the flattest downwards curve. Just look at South Korea :D

Because children are expensive, a ton of work, and the world is dying.

Pick one or all.

Bruh I can't afford to support myself let alone more mouths to feed. Children lol

Bank accounts are empty, and the air is full of smoke.

Who are these articles for?

Because it's been the same reasons for a decade and the idiots who keep asking still aren't reading them.

I see two issues here. One is how expensive shit is. Having their own kids is the least of my kids' concerns for their future. They are concentrating on being able to afford to leave the house after college, and start their own lives. When it is so hard for young people to start out, they're not going to be motivated to have kids unless it's forced upon them....

.... which brings me to my second point:

“I want a baby boom!” [Trump] told a crowd of supporters. “You men are so lucky out there.”

Men these days are super cringey. Half the country views Trump as the Alpha Male, a serial sexual predator. Politicians (who are predominately white and male) are all up in women's business about their fertility. Is it any wonder why so many young women identify as non-straight these days? And why the traditional gender roles hold no appeal for them? Women have been getting the short end of the stick for millenia, and it's only recently where they have had enough agency to not participate if they are not being treated well.

You want women to have more babies? Stop treating them like shit, and manage the costs of everything so that having kids isn't an economic death sentence.

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Half of all Americans have less than $500

4 out of 5 Americans have less than $5000.

Cheap diapers are 50c each and you need a minimum of 5 a day, more often 10, so half of all Americans cannot afford one month of basic child care(diapers, food, checkups)

1 out of 5 Americans have enough money to pay for the bare essentials so a baby can survive for more than a couple months.

https://www.cnbc.com/2024/01/24/how-much-money-americans-have-in-savings.html

I love how the Republicans are blaming societal causes when in reality it's because of fucked up a economy due to businesses price gouging the fuck out of everyone while also not paying employees a living wage, not giving raises to keep up with inflation, and more economic certainty. They don't realize that not everyone is rich like they are. lmao

remember when the 40hrs week made sense? gradpa could feed a family, have the life depicted in The Simpsons. that time is long gone and everybody too scared to change anything.

Can't afford one. Jobs don't pay enough to afford one. They're annoying. They're shit machines. I prefer to have fun in life and do what I like more than take care of a kid.

Why have a child so they can grow up to fight in the water wars or die of famine during ecological collapse?

The future isn't looking too good with all the rich fucks fucking the planet over. Everything is stupid expensive now, by the time you work and pay for childcare you're better off staying at home. It's really tough to get a house. It's pretty depressing what has become the norm in this country thanks to the ultra rich. It's about time to eat.

What a dumb, corporate, self-important headline. And limiting it to the United States is a particularly craven ploy to pump the political horse race.

I no longer live in the US in part for reasons I wouldn't have a child there.

• inequality increasing
• education costs increasing
• low employee protections
• ridiculous and expensive healthcare system
• few or poor social and community programs (not just social safety net but also libraries, public transit, etc.)
• environmental and other protections backsliding

Because of many of those, I left. The secondary reasons for not having my own biological kids are some medical issues I have and, by the time I was stable enough, I was already coming into my 40s. I had considered adoption, but ultimately decided not to do that, either.

Because the earth is on fire and having kids is a good way to guarantee another human starves to death while having heat stroke?

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$. Everything is expensive now, housing, food, etc. How can you raise children in this era?

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Every time I talk to a friend with children it sounds like they’re trying to stop Woodstock ‘99, and I’m too tired for that.

Oh... Well no money and general non-response to actual nazis to start

I’d suspect there’s a high correlation with better birth control options.

In the 90s, women had to be diligent to take a pill every day. Hell, I can’t even be trusted to take a pain pill when I have a headache.

I can’t tell you how many times an SO and I had a scare because she forgot to take a pill for a few days. I think this is doubly so when you’re in your late teens/early 20s and still don’t have a good understanding of risk.

Now, women can get an injection that lasts 3-6 months, or an implant that works for years.

So we’ve lowered our risk significantly and now it’s more skewed towards family planning. I think that’s a great thing - let the people who want to have kids have them, let the rest live out their lives how they envision it.

But family planning is tough and there are important factors that others have mentioned in their comments here. Money, opportunity, timing, support. I didn’t start having kids until my 40s, but if things had lined up better, I certainly would have preferred to be a Dad a little sooner.

Because some people actually care about children? Instead of pretending to care and immediately abandoning that position as soon as the child is born?

The American attitude that children are a lifelong punishment for having sex, and no one should ever expend any effort or a cent of money on a child they didn't personally fuck into existence?