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[–] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 67 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Why are people who make questionnaires so bad at making questionnaires? It's baffling. This post is particularly glaring but I always find stupid errors or assumptions like this.

[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Where i live, none of the forms to apply for a flat ask only allowed questions. The respective agency even provides a summary, what questions are not allowed (like gender, religion) because discrimination potential but all ask at least two of them.

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[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

Bias. Good 'ol plain bias.

Unless you're very self-aware, one requires actual training and practiced mindfulness to break free from that in all endeavors. There's also some lack-of-the-outside-world going on too - one would need to have at least thought about world experiences apart from one's own, to consider alternative possibilities.

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 day ago

“Please poison my data”

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 25 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Hey, look, all the sites I specifically avoid, plus Pinterest which just happens to get avoided.

[–] Lifter@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 6 hours ago

I got the uBlacklist Firefox extension specifically to block Pinterest from search results.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Pinterest... I got a Pinterest account because my wife recommended it after I asked what it was.

I got it. Very uninteresting. I see one image of like, lingerie or something, so I'm a heterosexual dude and I click that shit, think to myself, hey that's sexy, maybe my wife will look good in that.

Kid you not, my feed was nothing but lingerie and sexy stuff after that, and women's clothing. And there was seemingly no way to reset my algorithm or delete my view history or anything. I wanted to see stuff from my interests, like art, skateboarding, gaming, sports, computing, technology, what have you. But my feed was ruined forever.

My bad, I guess. 🤷‍♂️

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Just search for something else.

I use it a lot to find photos to draw and paint from, but I do use some unknown site to do it (on the web so adblockers work), the app or the normal website is a total trainwreck but this one is fine IMO: https://kr.pinterest.com/pin/

[–] icedterminal@lemmy.world 72 points 1 day ago (1 children)

By not having "None of the above" or an "Other" allowing you to fill in the blank, instantly discards this data as viable. which makes this question pointless to even answer, let alone ask.

[–] EstonianGuy@lemm.ee 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I think they shot themselves in the foot, one thing thats worse than no data is wrong data. And they are forcing people to produce wrong data.

[–] 13igTyme@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Choose every option.

[–] FlihpFlorp@lemm.ee 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Oh man I’m taking research class this is non exhaustive because there are gaps in the survey such as a lack of other or none and there’s a second criteria I can’t remember

I really hope my professor doesn’t have lemmy

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)
[–] FlihpFlorp@lemm.ee 3 points 22 hours ago

You might be on to something here

[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 30 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Didn't even have Reddit lmao

[–] mriswith@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

They sabotaged themselves years ago by squashing popular votes with an algorithm, so a large amount of people don't realize the size of the site.

You can go look at recent popular tweets and see 200k reactions, meanwhile the top posts on reddit show 10-30k votes, despite having 2-50 times as many behind the scenes.

[–] ThePowerOfGeek@lemmy.world 258 points 1 day ago (6 children)

That's objectively poor survey design. For questions like that there should always be an 'Other' option. There should also be a 'None' or 'N/A' option.

[–] WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social 128 points 1 day ago (10 children)

A radio presenter this morning was talking like we all have Instagram, I found that incredibly annoying.

[–] Tyoda@lemm.ee 58 points 1 day ago (17 children)

There are 2 billion MAUs on there. We are the weird ones.

[–] ryedaft@sh.itjust.works 58 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] punksnotdead@slrpnk.net 48 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Not to mention one person having multiple accounts for different purposes and business accounts. Instagram is big, no doubt, but not 2 billion users big

[–] Impleader@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago

And how many are bots?

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[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 1 day ago

Agreed, the only way this would be acceptable if this was in an application for a Social Media manager position?

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 1 day ago

I complained in the "other" box that they did include for a different question lol

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[–] Wispy2891@lemmy.world 27 points 1 day ago (3 children)

how the hell someone can use pinterest for more than one hour a week? Just accidentally browse it when trying to search an image on the web and curse the ux team to have hidden the download button in a way that you click the image and brings you in a completely unrelated site with 10000 images except the one you wanted

[–] Ghost@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago

If you're a visual artist it's great for finding reference and inspiration material. When I'm not sure exactly what I want to draw I'll usually scroll Pinterest for a bit, find something that gives me an idea, then use Pinterest again to source reference material for said idea. So if I'm really in the mood to draw I can definitely rack up a couple hours in Pinterest a week.

[–] Dreaming_Novaling@lemmy.zip 3 points 22 hours ago

Before they went all out nuclear with ads, promoted content, shops, and AI slop, I was using Pinterest a shit ton to look at fanart and memes (mostly stolen/reposted art, but real human art at least). I'd be on there for an hour or so every other day tbh, I liked making boards of my fixations and shit.

Then the app went to hell a few years back and I ditched it, because the web version sucks, and I didn't know about LibRedirect instances. Now I just don't bother with the place anymore.

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 6 points 1 day ago

Collecting cute images of fruit bats and wolves.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 32 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (8 children)

What the what? There is no "none of these" choice? In that case I'd check them all. And in the next screen when they ask how many hours for each, put 100 hours for each of them.

I have never had an account on any of those, did have a very long run on Reddit and a couple of interest-specific communities.

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closes questionnaire

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lol tell them you use Pinterest.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i still don't understand what the point of that site is, is it literally just made-up SEO spam that they managed to convince people is even slightly organic?

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Pinterest? I've only touched it a few times to see what it was and it's basically just Instagram, but instead of duck lips, misspelled names on coffee cups, and pictures of food it's mainly focused on hobbies/crafts. That was years ago, tho. I have no idea what it's like now.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 42 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Wow. I can honestly say I spend less than an hour a week on all of those. I wasn't expecting that.

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[–] viking@infosec.pub 12 points 1 day ago

Why bother taking the survey then, or is it somehow mandatory?

[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 35 points 1 day ago (5 children)

All they need to do is put YouTube on there for a more meaningful survey.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago

I hate that "social media" is such a broad umbrella term. It totally lacks useful context. "Social networking site" is great, straightforward and descriptive. But "social media" encompasses every way we communicate with each other except for "traditional media" which got grandfathered through. BBS predates the internet!

All that to say: YouTube is, for many, a public-access TV station and I'm too young to be this mad about it.

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[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 53 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Pinterest. They're like half of google results.

[–] tibi@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I seriously don't understand why anyone would use it. It's basically a platform that copies images from the internet and lets you bookmark them. Something browsers had since the 90s. Or you could just download the pictures to a folder, so you can see all the thumbnails.

[–] Phen@lemmy.eco.br 52 points 1 day ago (2 children)

And I never understood how to use it. If I click on a Google result from Pinterest I'm always taken to something completely different.

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[–] Lanske@lemmy.world 30 points 1 day ago

None of the above?

[–] zqwzzle@lemmy.ca 36 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Think of it as giving them bad data.

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[–] AdrianTheFrog@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I would get discord, youtube, lemmy, and reddit

I try to avoid new platforms tho bc I don't trust myself not to get addicted and social media already takes up too much of my time

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I’d just abandon it if I couldn’t answer a question or it was too involved (like a free text box answer).

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[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago

The questionaire is kinda badly made but also i would choose snapchat because for some reason everyone i know uses it.

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