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For me, it was that the Internet never forgets and that you should never enter your real name. In my opinion, both of these rules are now completely ignored.

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[-] Sanctus@lemmy.world 136 points 1 month ago

Dont believe anyone on the internet.

[-] hddsx@lemmy.ca 39 points 1 month ago
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[-] Anissem@lemmy.ml 129 points 1 month ago

Don’t pick up the phone if someone is online… I’m old

[-] watersnipje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 65 points 1 month ago

I’m a millennial, I learned this, and now I just don’t pick up the phone.

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[-] Stern@lemmy.world 114 points 1 month ago

Don't feed the trolls.

Of course nowadays its nearly impossible to tell whos spouting racial slurs to get folks mad and whos doing it because they're just an asshole.

[-] Chadus_Maximus@lemm.ee 49 points 1 month ago

Don't feed the AI

[-] Pyflixia@kbin.melroy.org 19 points 1 month ago

Just assume almost everybody is an asshole online and you can't be wrong. Because anonymity has granted them that capability.

[-] Localhorst86@feddit.org 21 points 1 month ago

The fact that people being assholes with their real names on Facebook tells me, anonymity has nothing to do with it.

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[-] Jordan117@lemmy.world 104 points 1 month ago

When you share something cool, link back to the original creator or where you found it from.

[-] hightrix@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I’d argue this is the opposite of what was asked.

In the early days, no one would post sources or attribute “stuff” to anyone. We’d all just share what we thought were cool pictures.

Now, everyone gets mad when you dont post the name of the artist and their socials.

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[-] MudMan@fedia.io 92 points 1 month ago

Social media killed online aliases and I have a hard time deciding if we're all worse for it.

Instinctively I still stick by that, though, as you can tell by my anonymous profile with no bio, but when I volunteer any amount of personal info these days people are often confused that I'm not sharing openly who I am or where I'm from. Every time someone does that it weirds me out because in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

[-] kablammy@sh.itjust.works 46 points 1 month ago

in the 90s telling (and asking) people those things would have been such a suspicious, sketchy move.

a/s/l?

[-] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 month ago

Aight, I put on my robe and wizard's hat.

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[-] Sequentialsilence@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago

We were all 18/f/cal come on man…

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[-] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 23 points 1 month ago

Facebook tried that shit with me. Ban until I sent verification of my ID so I sent a paystub photoshopped (badly) with my alias, it was accepted and it's still there even though I left FB years ago.

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[-] dfyx@lemmy.helios42.de 84 points 1 month ago

When reading a long text, disconnect from the internet as soon as it has loaded so you don't pay for the time you spend reading.

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[-] fubarx@lemmy.ml 66 points 1 month ago
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[-] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 64 points 1 month ago

"Don't believe everything you read on the internet." -Abraham Lincoln

Social media, a gorilla getting shot, two US elections, and GenAI later, we have completely fallen off this one simple rule.

[-] NostraDavid@programming.dev 22 points 1 month ago

The amount of boomer bait on Facebook is staggering. The amount of Boomers falling for obviously AI-generated shite even moreso.

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[-] distortwave@lemmy.ml 64 points 1 month ago

Don't share your personal information online.

Yeah that's definitely not being followed anymore.

[-] Adderbox76@lemmy.ca 61 points 1 month ago

Don't give your credit card details over the internet.

Nowadays people have them saved in their damn browser for convenience.

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[-] Pyflixia@kbin.melroy.org 58 points 1 month ago

I'm a faithful follower of never using your real name in social parts of the internet. We don't need to know and we don't want to know. The only ones who would want to know are scammers or people wanting to give you a shitty time. I only use my real name online for people and places in where it's required like talking to agents from my bank, insurance .etc And very few friends know my real name through FB and the circle anyways.

Don't send nudes online to anybody. I know of some communities where people happily are flaunting it one moment then they make a post later whining about them being exploited or that they thought they were crafty hiding the nudes from someone they're married with. They delete it but they're too naive to think that what's already out there, has most likely been saved by hundreds by now, so you're fucked either way.

Another is, is that if you want to be understood, then you need to use proper spelling and grammar. I miss the days when you got kicked at because you used 'u' in replacement of 'you'. It's just two fucking extra letters you lazy asshole. These days saying stupid shit like; 'yah fr u tha fam' is somehow a complete sentence. No, I'm going to give you shit for it and if you want me to bother caring with what you have to say, fucking make some sense. I don't even get offended by insults when they're poorly spelled, it just tells me what kind of an inept moron you are.

[-] 01011@monero.town 27 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I'm with you on the no real names, no nudes. "Don't dox yourself" was the norm pre-Myspace. Facebook made it almost fashionable to do so.

I'm fine with shorthand and colloquialisms, especially in the era of the smartphone and their lack of physical keyboards.

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[-] stoy@lemmy.zip 57 points 1 month ago

I remember being taught in school to apply source criticism, and that seems to have largely died as a concept.

This was back in the early 2000s...

[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 54 points 1 month ago

You should use the Internet to get info out of it, not put your info there. If you do want to put info, it should never be traceable to you.

I just don’t get why people want so much of their life online…

[-] RaoulDook@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago

It went from "don't post pictures of yourself or your real name online because you might get strangers' attention" to everyone trying to be their own version of a Max Headroom talking head to try to get the attention of all the strangers. Selfies, video selfies, talking head videos, reaction videos... all garbage.

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[-] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 49 points 1 month ago
[-] thedirtyknapkin@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago

twitter built itself on doing this the most nonsensical and annoying way possible.

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[-] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 47 points 1 month ago

Basic forum etiquette. It's horrifying at work seeing teams "teams" (forums) used like chats, all the cross-posting and thread necromancy, people completely unable to keep topics confined to the appropriate sub-forum, etc

[-] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 month ago

thread necromancy

AKA "discussing something with new information more than 31 seconds after people got bored of it"

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[-] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 39 points 1 month ago

On the Internet I grew up on, pretty much anything was ok except to discuss (or even speculate about) the real-world identities of users who didn't very openly disclose them.

Now many people think the latter is ok.

[-] AAA@feddit.org 38 points 1 month ago

The same people who warned us about the dangers of the internet and not to believe everything, are now the ones readily falling for and spreading conspiracies and lies from social media.

It's tragic.

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[-] SatyrSack@feddit.org 37 points 1 month ago
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[-] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 37 points 1 month ago

Don't talk to strangers.

Searching things is easy so don't post something without checking it. People now don't make the slightest effort to verify a rumor or conspiracy crap.

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[-] Didros@beehaw.org 36 points 1 month ago

I learned as a kid playing star craft that there are noobs and newbs. Newbs are people new to a game who need help learning. And a noob is someone who has played for a while and refuses to learn and would rather troll.

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[-] Nemo@slrpnk.net 36 points 1 month ago

Internet is a proper noun and should always be capitalized.

[-] Kanzar@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 month ago

Don't get into stranger's cars, and don't give out your real name or number or address on the internet.

Now you do most of these things when you call an uber. 😅

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[-] Lennnny@lemmy.world 30 points 1 month ago

Don't meet people from online.

[-] 58008@lemmy.world 28 points 1 month ago

As in real life, it's pretty sound advice to ignore, block or otherwise disengage from trolls and other forms of belligerents. Even in the '90s when I first started using the internet, the phrase of the day was "don't feed the trolls". But people just can't help themselves. They will even reply saying "I know you're a troll, but...".

The Steam forums are a great example, where every other thread is a fake "is this game woke??" screed. The fact that you can be rewarded for being a cunt there with jesters (which translate into points that can be spent to buy profile items) just makes it a thousand times worse. You get 'paid' to be a troll on Steam. It's insanity.

The only anti-troll weapon that works or is needed is oblivion. Let their steaming turd of a post curdle in solitude. Don't even downvote it. Being downvoted is a victory for them, an acknowledgement that they exist and that they've gotten your attention and that they've annoyed you. Shadowban them from your mind. Block them so that no future posts of theirs will infect your screen. Report them so mods can remove/ban them. Just don't engage directly with the post or the user. Don't say "blocked and reported" in the troll's thread/post. Just do it silently.

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[-] Grimwell@lemm.ee 26 points 4 weeks ago

Don't Feed the trolls

[-] AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 21 points 4 weeks ago

Stay anonymous

[-] a_baby_duck@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago

Read -> Comprehend -> Post

[-] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 20 points 4 weeks ago

Don't be a dick.

[-] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago

A/S/L should be replied when you join a chat room

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 month ago

69/yes/flavourtown

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[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 18 points 4 weeks ago

Don't believe everything you see. Actually I was taught that about TV, but for some reason the old folks forgot about it being applicable everywhere in life, not just on TV. They also forget about it on TV too.

[-] random_character_a@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

Play Team Fortress on weekends. It's cheaper.

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