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I'm about 12,950 Kilometers from my spawn point, according to Google Earth. That place is not "home" since I barely have any memories of it, and left the country during primary school.

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[–] Waldelfe@feddit.org 2 points 3 days ago

6.5 km from my appartment to the hospital I was born in.

I was born in the neighboring city, currently live in the district that is closest to said city. However I grew up in a village 90km from here. My parents moved out of the city when I was 2. I lived in several different cities, even on a different continent for a while. A couple of years ago I moved here for a job and 5 years ago my now-husband and I found this appartment together which happens to be on the border of our city that is closest to the city I was born in.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago

I live 2.2 miles/3,5 km from my childhood home but have lived as far away as 4,383 miles/7.053 km away. Yes, I would consider my hometown as my current home.

[–] v01dworks@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

Currently not far, but I’m going to be moving to another country in a couple months and it will be about 5,000 miles away

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

My house is about 2 miles away from the hospital where I was born but only a couple of meters from the spot where the house my parents lived in when I was born used to stand, which means there's a good chance I can see the spot where I was conceived from my upstairs window.

Other side of the country.

[–] QubaXR@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

8,130km. Neither current location not spawn point feel like home. That would be 1,667km from spawn and 9,788km from here.

[–] Zerlyna@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

549 miles. It’s a blue state beckoning me back as well.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I am less than a mile from the hospital I was born in. Like some middle ages peasant.

The city grew up with me, or I grew up with it; when I was young there was not much to do and it was quite violent. Through my life it has become vibrant and safer, not that I had anything to do with it. Now there is so much to do, beautiful parks, concerts, downtown came back to life.

I have visited other places, for months at a time before I had kids, and shorter trips after. But here actually is home, it's funny. I wouldn't have dreamed it when I was a little kid.

[–] Rocketpoweredgorilla@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago

I'm about 80 miles from where I was hatched. Moved away when I had kids because I didn't want to raise them in Winnipeg (Canada) because.. well.. Winnipeg.

It'll always be my home town, but I now live in an area with a population density of 7 ppl per square mile, and I wouldn't trade it for the world. (The loudest things out here are the birds, and it's nice and peaceful.)

[–] spirinolas@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I'm about 500 meters from the place where the hospital I was born stood (the building still exists, but it's something else now).

I grew up in this city since my parents moved here before I was born. I also lived here half of my adult life and I'm thinking of leaving.

I have no emotional connection with this city. My family is from a different region of the country and we have a very different culture. My heart is with my parents hometown and I always identify myself with the region autonym.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Maybe 250 miles. While I have “rose colored glasses” about that being a wonderful place to grow up, now it’s all grey monochrome dystopia. The major tech employer left and the town never recovered. Many years later it’s exactly the same, but decayed.

At this point I’ve lived in my current town almost as long, my current region longer. It’s home

[–] FeloniousPunk@lemmy.today 4 points 3 days ago

Mine is 4,242 km (2,636 mi). I will never go back.

[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I have been about 4500 miles away for most of my life, but I was home sick so I moved closer and I am now only 1500 miles away from spawn.

[–] don@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 days ago

2312 miles, or 3,721 km. From the east coast of the US to the west coast.

[–] josteinsn@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

100km now, but even though i say I’m from there, i have no family and barely any acquaintances left. Still can do the dialect, though, if i make an effort. Usually don’t. And in a couple of years, I’ll move hundreds or thousands of kilometres away. Again.

[–] JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

7km, and yes, still home lol

I'm a single digit number of miles from the place I was born, but I do not consider the town it is in to be "home" as it is in a neighboring town.

[–] ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago

Weirdly I’m only 17 kms as I’m staying with friends while I’m away from home working. I actually live 90 kms away now, though I lived all over the world growing up. The furthest away was 12k kms.

[–] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

5 miles away from spawn point, the furthest I've lived is 300 miles away but in the same nation, my spawn city is absolutely home to me, even if not ethnically from here, I am very privileged to be born here

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Currently 7 miles / 11.3 km away, but have lived 3941 miles / 6343 km away.

The fact that I'm now so close again is pretty much pure chance.

[–] Horsey@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

4300km. I’ll go back for a few more funerals and maybe because downtown Boston has fantastic food.

[–] PonyOfWar@pawb.social 2 points 3 days ago

Around 20km from the town I was born in. Never lived there though, so it's not really my home but definitely part of my home region. I do currently live in the village and house I grew up in, which I would consider as home.

20 km, and yes, definitely my home, i'd say :D

[–] saltesc@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (2 children)

About 1,500 km. Nope, there is places I grew up and places I've been. There's no "hometown".

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[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

I live about an hour from my spawn point. I don't consider it home as I left it 15 years ago after realizing it was dead end city full of terrible people.

[–] theherk@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

6k km almost precisely. Different continent. This will be my home.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 3 points 4 days ago

Half a world away. It hasn’t been my home for more than 2 decades now.

In functional reality, I've lived in the same place all my life. In technical terms I'm less than 5 miles from the hospital where I was born.

I'm determined to be the short side of the 50 mile average.

[–] BootLoop@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

Like 10 kilometers? The hospital I was born in was torn down but I still live in the same town and I don't plan on leaving.

[–] lemming741@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I saw an article 20 years ago that claimed the median distance of birthplace to death?place? is 50 miles for men in the US. I was determined to beat that number, and I'm almost double that now but goddamn was it hard.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Life Pro Tip: Steal a spaceship right before you die. 😁

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[–] JovialSodium@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 4 days ago

74 miles/119km.

I don't consider that specific place home. While it's not particularly far, I have no memories of it and it is different culturally. The state in general though I do consider home.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

Several thousand miles and no.

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 3 points 4 days ago

30 miles in distance, which doesn't seem like much. But very different culturally. Where I grew up often didn't feel like home even when I lived there. It definitely doesn't now.

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

150ish miles

[–] Evotech@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

480km away. Not much

And no

[–] FancyPantsFIRE@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

About 26 miles from the hospital I was born in, or 35 miles from my family’s home at the time. I haven’t gone far, but each move has a been a little bit further.

Who knows, by the time I die maybe I’ll live outside the local metro area!

About 6 miles from the hospital I was born in. I guess I technically don’t see that city as my home. I’m from Salford which is a city inside Manchester which is the city I call home.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 days ago

About 12km. I hope to make it further in the near future, though.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 4 days ago

78 miles from my spawn point.

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[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago

About 1600km, and fuck no. Hit the ground running when I was 16 and never called anywhere home again.

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